Add some spice to your sex life
It’s hard to think that we are always pleasing our man, matter of fact we KNOW that we’re not always the best in the bedroom. So we try to figure out the next best way to spice up our relationship. It’s hard to think of something that hasn’t done before, but it’s okay to rinse and repeat once in a while. You’d be surprised how much the little things can change everything.
Try some lingerie, nothing too expensive like Agent Provocateur but something that will make him be awed at the sight of you. Unless he has openly told you that he does not care for lingerie, it doesn’t hurt to run a test drive. But don’t get crazy and buy candy thongs and nipple tassels. You want him to want to take your clothes off (except if he’s into that type of stuff). Yes, Victoria’s Secret has expensive lingerie but there are other websites that have cute selections. Frederick’s Hollywood has more sultry lingerie and Adore me is softer. Both are great websites to get some inexpensive lingerie.
This may sound bizarre but missing one another can actually do wonders! This may be hard to do if you live together, so try not having sex for a week. Spending time apart or refraining from sex will make the next time, the best time. The buildup and anticipation of your next session with him will make it even more exciting. It can even turn into a challenge, throw some flirting into the mix and see who can last the longest.
Instead of being “vanilla” and having sex in the bedroom, try different places. Take a hot steamy with each other and release all the tension from the day. If you guys are going on vacation have sex on the beach or on the balcony of the hotel room. Anybody who lives there will never see you two again. Just don’t get caught by authorities. Even the backseat of his car will do the trick. Find a desolate and dark area cut the headlights off and just slip into the back seat. Skip this part if he has a two-seater!
Lastly, be spontaneous. Instead of having sex at home, get a hotel room and have sex there. Let the neighbors know his name! Plus you wont have to face any embarrassing moments in the elevator with your real neighbors. Plan a nice dinner date inside, with candles, his favorite dinner, and finish off with you as dessert. How can he say no to that?
Miquira J.