What is sex without head? It’s like getting a vanilla ice cream cone without the sprinkles, or a cup of hot cocoa without the marshmallows. A man going down on us adds more heat to our sex life. Receiving oral doesn’t happen all the time, but when it does women may expect to have the grand finale. Sometimes women don’t want head for the entire session but it’s something to use to get us started. I remember a few years back when eating pussy just became the latest craze. Men were ridiculing other men, if they didn’t head downtown for dinner. Of course women became more accepting of giving head to their boyfriends as well, and admitted to the fact that it’s actually not as bad as women depicted it to be. As for men, they aren’t so keen on sharing the fact that they enjoy giving head to their girl.
There are some men who just aren’t down with the get down and who ever they belong to, their poor unfortunate souls. Men love when women go down on them, yet they lack in knowing how to return the favor. I wondered what exactly men thought about licking it before sticking it. So I asked my friends to ask ANY man they knew, what they thought about giving head to women, and here’s what some of them had to say…
Man 1: “It’s fine. As long as he’s not doing it and don’t want nothing in return. Or it’s a random girl, can’t do that.”
Man 2: “I’m pro, I don’t see nothing wrong with it.”
Man 3: “I feel like there’s way too much casual intimacy now a days, and that should be held in the same respect as sex, in the fact of it being not just with fly by people… but I don’t do it unless I love the girl. But shiiiiit (adding emphasis) it’s a beautiful thing especially when it’s done well, with love.”
Man 4: “I mean, I never had a problem with it. It’s good to return the favor.”
Man 5: “I enjoy it because I love my girlfriend, and I feel in control aside from having sex and being in control.”
Man 6: “Dining at the Y (I thought this was hilarious), to me is something that should be limited, not for everyday use. If you are having a special night and you want to do something different that would be an alternative just to please her… I don’t do it because I’m very confident in my stroking ability and I haven’t found someone that is exclusive enough to do that to.”
And then I decided to switch it and ask women what they think about giving head, here’s what women had to say…
Woman 1: “I think they should be open to it, they should do it for their man but if he not eating it, then keep that mouth shut.”
Woman 2: “Well there’s nothing wrong, I like giving head, BUT it ain’t free like I’m not gonna give you head if you ain’t doing anything.”
Woman 3: “I think it can feel very derogatory if you’re doing it for the wrong person. I also think boys don’t take care of themselves as well as most females do, especially in the preparation for sex.”
Woman 4: “I think if your man likes it, then they should get to liking it too, (lol). You have to please your man. I personally do not like it but I do it because he likes it. Sometimes I find myself liking it, but most times I don’t.”
Woman 5: “If it’s your man you better, it entices the coochie!”
Woman 6: “If he doesn’t do it back, then it’s not a huge obligation. You gotta show some loving every once in a while though to keep them whipped.”
To be honest I expected at least one man to answer in disgust and disgrace as to why any man would give head to their girlfriends. But it was actually entertaining to see what men had to say about it. The answers that came from the women were even more entertaining and many of them thought the same. The verdict is, men must give in order to receive.