As women there is this inner urge to want to be in a relationship even when we’re not 100 percent ready. What exactly is eating away at us? It can be a numerous amount of things that causes women to continuously want to be in relationship after relationship. It could be that our golden years are coming to an end our internal clock is on its last grains of sand, the fact that all of our friends have become wives and mothers. We are lonely or bored.
While the other reasons can justify a woman’s dedication and push to find a man, fall in love, get married and make babies. Being lonely or bored just isn’t a good enough reason to be with someone. That’s exactly why you have good friends, who can assist you in experiencing life. Of course it’s easier to do all this with single friends, so it’s fine to go searching for friends who want the same as you do.
Not even as a woman, but as an individual, people need to take out that time to just enjoy you. Enjoy being alone, eat alone, sleep alone, go to a movie alone and travel alone. There is so much people can find out about himself or herself by just being alone. Learn what you hate, what you love, and what you like when you’re in the mood for it. If you don’t know yourself as a person, how can you expect for other people to know the true you. Saying that you would like to enter a relationship with someone due to the fact that you’re bored, is just saying you need a companion and nothing more. You’re not looking for substance a full on relationship, but a comrade.
Loneliness and Boredom can give off similar feelings. There’s the feeling of emptiness, the feeling that you’re missing some thing in the world. You’re missing out on being with someone because society makes it seem more fun to be in a relationship. There are other ways to treat boredom besides being in a relationship. Find something you actually enjoy doing, maybe not on a daily basis, but weekly. Loneliness can suck sometimes, but you have to stick it out until Mr. Right comes along.