Your man is acting funny. He’s super attached to his phone, you’ve witnessed him deleting texts, and he’s answering phone calls feet away from you and constantly making up excuses when you want to spend some time with him. Despite the unsettling idea of finding something you don’t want to see, you still check his phone. Especially if you suspect him of cheating, but if you already feel like he is then he most likely is. It’s women’s intuition, when we know we just know. There are telltale signs that tell us our man is cheating on us and we just ignore them. Even though the signs are flashing like huge bright lights in our faces. We ignore it because it’s every woman’s fear, to be cheated on by someone she loves. Because we all know that unfaithfulness is known to make a woman bitter.
So besides checking his phone, how do you know your man is cheating on you? When a person begins to find interest in another person they begin to want to look good. It’s like polishing the items in your store so that they can sell. If your man didn’t care about working out before then all of a sudden he’s constantly at the gym he’s probably trying to look good for someone else. Or if he wasn’t about fixing himself up all the time, but then begins to change his wardrobe so he can look dapper all the time maybe you should question whom he’s trying to impress. Noticing him spending more time with his friends? That’s a problem, since when are they so important that he must be with them six days out of the week, or every night. What exactly is he doing and is he really going to the bars (again)?
When being in a committed relationship, couples tend to build trust when it comes to having sex. So condom use is minimal, if used at all. So if you find condoms, excluding the one he has had in his wallet since he was 15. Then definitely confront him about it, because if you’re not using them in the relationship then why exactly does he need them. Maybe even count how many he has stashed away keep it in mind and if you notice they are disappearing it’s time for you to bring it up in conversation. When you confront him and he turns the tables on you, questioning your faithfulness you should be weary. When one finger is pointing at you, two fingers are pointing back at him.
When your gut is screaming and telling you he is cheating just go with it, because your gut is almost always telling you the truth. Of course women like concrete evidence, we need to see it with our own eyes. If the evidence will make you more confident in leaving his two-timing ass then the next time he goes out follow him, and all roads will lead to your revelation.