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#HipHop4Her: First Date Jitters
The first date with a new man is always nerve wrecking. You don’t want to form a bad first impression nor do you want to be known as the girl that had greens in her teeth. As females we want everything to go perfect cause it just might be the start of something new. But just in case we discuss a full on escape plan with our girls. There’s no way to plan out the perfect first date, it seems impossible to have one. However there are ways to ensure you’re not the one who blows the mood and ensure that your first impression will stick in his head.
Finding an outfit is always hard, for women. So imagine trying to find an outfit so that we can look cute for a night like this. Should you wear jeans or should you wear that tight dress that makes your ass look great? It actually all depends on where your date is going to the take you that night. You don’t want wear your favorite LBD and heels to the movie theater. Then you’ll just stick out like a sore thumb, so ask your date what he has planned for you guys.
If he has asked for your input on where the date should be, speak up! This allows you to fill him on what you like a little bit. Don’t just respond with “I don’t know,” or “It’s whatever you want to do.” He can end up taking you on a cheap date. So if you’re in the mood for some seafood, suggest some seafood restaurants to him. One suggestion is to avoid the usual movie date, because you are unable to converse with your date while the movie is rolling. You can, but that would be rather rude of you guys. Try going for an environment where the two of you can get to know one another.
When leaving your house, don’t forget to tuck your confidence into your clutch. Being confident on your date can attract him even more. Even if you need to get your hair and nails done to give you a confidence boost. Men like women who are confident so if you’re aiming to get a second date be sure in yourself. Having confidence in yourself and trust that the date will go well is enough security to assure you it will.